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Friday, May 19, 2017

Moving On!

This is one of the hardest things that I've been through. For those who don't know my life. It's been quite a roller coaster! For those who do, Just sit tight as I share a bit of the background where I am coming from.

My life has been filled with moving from town to town. Following where the work is for my dad. From town to town to across the country. I've gone through times my family has been doing well, to broke, homeless, and completely falling apart. Over two years ago, in one of the times my family were homeless, living with my older sister for the summer till we found a new home. I started to interact with someone from school. Our friendship became serious it formed into a relationship. My first actually. With our lives moving forward, within the month of that decision My family were finally in our own place. 

I found a good job making some good money, and after winter, my family were out of the house, back living with my sister. I had to leave my job, as it didn't make sense with the gas issue going back and forth. My parents stayed three weeks  and went out camping. In that time, I found another job, in the town my sister lived. After the summer, my baby sister and I decided to move out and get a place of our own. Leaving my parents household. We got our own cars the end of winter. I had a job, car, my own place and a girlfriend where we both planned on marring each other. The months moved on, my sister and I decided to find our own places. One of the most beautiful apartments here. Before I knew it, Bills piled up, I lost my car. One of the worse things that I've lived through, but it was the start of my newest roller coaster.

When you loose something like your vehicle, it changes you in ways that can't be explained. My girlfriend and I started to fight like crazy. our two years of perfect relationship was ripping apart. Our dates started to plunder down to maybe once a month. The next thing was my apartment, which I lost. I moved in with my brother and sister inlaw. At this point, We were fighting more than we were talking. I quit my job which I hated, cause I was starting to work for my dad. We decided to take two weeks to of silence. We agreed to no communication to figure out what we wanted. in that time, I lost my only and favourite aunt. We cut the time off by a week, and we decided to cut our relationship short, but to remain friends. 

How do you move on from a relationship that you share with someone for over two years? Share your thoughts with? Share those hard times you go through, or try to forget those things that were said that conduct what your relationship were even built on? Those parts of your body you wish you would share with someone special?

I'll keep you all updated on my moving forward journey

Monday, July 25, 2016

Been a bit!

Hey to those who have cared to continue to check on my blog. I see that some of you guys still care to join me in my adventures.

There has been quite a lot that has happened in my life in this past year. Lets take some time and reflect on.
In October, I decided to join the Eckville Fire Department. It was great to be apart of something bigger than myself. To be apart of a family, knowing they have your back as you have theirs.
This this past year, quite a few of mine/Kira's friends have passed away. If you didn't know last year the Bott girls (from Withrow) passed away in a farming accident. Kira and I had the opportunity to join in for them memorial. A fellow fire fighter that we have had met at a course we had to take, his son passed away. Not only The EFD but Kira and I were able to with our fellow friend, but a brother in the FD world.

Kira's family had a tough year with family members being sick. It put a lot of strain on not only her family but also on our relationship. Thankfully we all made it out of the tough year, and we are all stronger than ever.

I got my own apartment! Ok, ok! My sister and I got our own. Sept 5 we moved in. We left my parents and temp lived with our older sister till we got our own. It was a huge step in our lives. It's been a great 10 months. Then my sister decided she needed to be completely on her own. She moved out at the beginning of this month. Now living completely on our own I could never be more excited about it.
Yet, I've been looking into moving yet again. To a better part of town. Into a newer complex. The rent would be cheaper. I also wouldn't have a shared Laundry situation. It would be in-suit. Which would be a money saver as it is.

My dad kick started his Agri-dryer. Most being direct flame, this is the first of its kind out there its forced air. I started working on this with him. with working at Dairy queen and trying to keep a social life.

Well, I guess I'll cut it here for now.
Till next time,
NM

Thursday, July 23, 2015

More Pictures

Hello everybody,
I recently gotten more pictures back from the photo shoot that Kira and I did earlier this month. I wanted to share more pictures with you guys and if anybody is in the area. I thought I would share info so you can get pictures done as well!
Here is the link to the Lady; Oh Snap Photography
Untill next time,
NM



Monday, July 13, 2015

Photoshoot

Hey everybody, 
This passed Wednesday, my girlfriend and I had a good friend of ours take our first proper pictures other then selfies. 
It was amazing as she's getting married this month and well me moving out of town. A good time for us to spend our last few days together. 
I wanted to share a few pictures with you. My favorites: 

Thanks for viewing it, Kira and I had a blast! 
Till next time, 
NM

Tuesday, June 30, 2015

My job

For most of you, I work at DQ here in town. It was a job to fill my time. But it's become more than that. Recently, I've quite enjoyed it. Joking around, fast pace. It's amazing. But now than that two weeks ago I recived a raise. Which is amazing since I'm still in my probation period. I was so proud of myself till this passed Sunday I recived a supervisor card. I'm thrilled beyond relief. I got a supervisor card, and still within my probation period. 
There yah go folks, between work and my gf I haven't had time to post. Buy I'm to excited to not post Anything for you all. 
NM

Thursday, June 18, 2015

Night to remember

Last night, after work my girlfriend came by to spend the night with me. As she's headed off to her family vacation spot in BC. I couldn't think of a better day than last night. We had an early supper. Walked around the beach. We did a lot of talking. 

Talked about our day, family, friends and what we'd like to see the future. Tears were shed at the end of the amazing day. Tears of joy, and tears of sadness. One thing I can't wait for is to see her beautiful face when she comes back. 

I love you Kira!!!! 

Tuesday, June 16, 2015

My birthday

This post is completely late. But I wanted to post something. 

May 13th was my 21st birthday, which I share with my girlfriend'a brother. Which is amazing to share it with an awesome lil (not so little) dude. It was amazing to be with so many loved ones. My family and my other family, ie my girlfriends family. It was a true blessing.